HOW TO LEAD A MARRIED AND FAMILY LIFE

The institution of marriage is the socially recognised union between a man and a woman that serves to legitimise their children. The official union of a man and a woman is common in every modern society and helps to ensure that children have a secure upbringing. Human beings have recognised marriage relationships for thousands of years,but marriages based on free choice and love are more common today. In previous centuries arranged marriages were usual; they are common in non-western societies, with relatives negotiating an advantageous match for both families. Monogamy (marriage to one person at a time) is the general rule, although some countries allow polygamy, where a man has more than one wife at a time . Polyandry, where a woman takes several husbands simultaneously, is rarer but exists.

Love is the passionate and abiding desire, on the part of two people, to produce together conditions under which each can self- to produce together an intellectual soil and an emotional climate in which each can flourish, far superior to what either could achieve alone. marriage is one of the most fundamental and enduring so true marriage, man and woman think more of social institutions.

In a true marriage, man and woman think more of the partnership than they do of themselves. It is an interweaving of interests and facing of sacrifice together for the sake of both. A feeling of security and contentment comes from mutual effort.

A family is defined as a group of persons united by the ties of marriage, or adoption, constituting a single household, and interacting with each other. Some from of family organisation is found in all human societies, although there are great variation in the type of families in different societies.

A family in the simplest terms, is the union of a man and a woman along with their offspring. usually living in a private and  separate dwelling. this type of living arrangement, more specifically known as the nuclear family, is believed to be the oldest of the types of families in existence.

what people want when they are married

A wife needs:

Tenderness, courtesy, understanding, fairness, loyalty, honesty, and good companionship.

A husband needs;

Love, Attentiveness, family, obligations, faithfulness, understanding, loyalty, proper food and to be calmed when he is in bad mood.

MARRIAGE IS A BLESSING

Marriage is a blessing but many people turn their married lives into a curse.

GIVE AND TAKE POLICY

 marriage is a give and take affair. the husband gives his wife everything he makes and she takes it.

~Henry Morgan~

(the real meaning of the give -and -take policy is to compromise)